Play (遊戲)

There is no denial that the education of our child is vital to his future and a task of parents to balance between the two is made more difficult with a myriad of games and entertainment a child has access to.

If you encourage your child to handle many types of material you will be helping him to measure, organise and arrange them in a variety of ways. Children need the intellectual stimulation of using different materials in different ways.

Because play is so important in a young child's life - The Brigade has a host of healthy activities for a child to work at. You will find many ideas to help your child be creative, even with materials that are found around the home. We understand, without a moment of doubt and indeed very clearly, that it is the wishes of every parent to see their child secure a bright future and strike a balance between play and study.

Cutting off play from a child's life totally is definitely not the solution; rather the measure would only fester bitterness and defiance within the child. Stopping the child from participating in healthy activities and leaving him alone to study without the parents themselves at home to supervise the child is still not the solution.

Ideally, parents themselves should join the child in his studies, develop an understanding for his strengths and help out with his weaknesses but the issue with many parents is the factor of time. Then again not many of us are able to sit down and teach our children.

The fact remains that we are to set ourselves and for the child goals in a positive step towards achieving the parents' aim. Without goals we tend to be casual; with goals we are far more inclined to be disciplined. The sad fact is that many of us parents are far more disciplined and determined when it comes to advancing our career than we are to advancing the level of a child's maturity and growing up. We encounter the bitter feeling of regrets in later years as we see the child wilfully defy obedience and respect for our authority.

The Brigade attempts to balance these two issues with certain incentives, outlined elsewhere, both for play and for excellence in education.

Give a child plenty of praise when he makes something; he will feel proud if you display it. You cannot expect a very young child to have a long attention span; 10 to 15 minutes may be the longest time for which he can concentrate, but he will come back to the occupation with pleasure if you do not complain that he tires of it too quickly.

The Brigade meets at the St. Andrew’s School premises every Sunday beginning 1:30 pm – 5:00 pm. Encourage your child to participate in our weekly programmes. Or call us at telephone 8856757 (Andy), or 02-653366 (Walter) during most evenings, for more information.

The Boys’ Brigade in Brunei
Where Good Discipline Begins

是無可否認的教育我們的孩子變得更加困難了無數的遊戲和娛樂孩子有他的未來和任務的父母兩者之間的平衡是非常重要的。

如果你鼓勵你的孩子,你會幫助他來衡量,他們以各種方式組織和安排,處理多種類型的材料。孩子們需要的智力刺激,以不同的方式使用不同的材料。 由於玩的是如此重要的一個年輕孩子的生命 - 該旅有一個孩子在主機的健康活動。你會發現很多想法,以幫助您的孩子有創意,甚至與在家附近被找到的材料。據我們所知,沒有片刻的懷疑,的確很清楚,這是每一個家長的願望,看到自己的孩子爭取一個光明的未來,玩耍和學習之間取得平衡。 完全切斷戲劇從一個孩子的生命是絕對不會的解決方案,而這項措施只會在兒童潰爛痛苦和反抗。停止孩子參與有益身心的活動,並留下他一人沒有自己的父母在家裡學習,監督孩子仍然沒有解決方案。 理想的情況下,家長自己要加入的孩子在他的研究中,他的長處發展的了解,並幫助他的弱點,但很多家長的問題是時間因素。然後又不是我們很多人都能夠坐下來教導我們的孩子。 事實仍然是,我們設置自己和孩子的目標邁出的積極一步實現父母的目的。沒有目標,我們往往不能隨隨便便的目標,我們更傾向於受到紀律處分。可悲的事實是,我們很多的父母都遠遠紀律處分的決心,來推進我們的事業比我們要推進一個孩子的成熟和成長。我們遇到的苦澀感覺遺憾,在以後的歲月裡,我們看到孩子故意違抗的權威的服從和尊重。 該旅試圖平衡這兩個問題具有一定的獎勵,在其他地方,播放和卓越的教育。 給孩子大量的讚美,當他做什麼,他會感到非常驕傲,如果你顯示出來。你可以不指望一個非常年輕的孩子到有一個長期關注跨度; 10到15分鐘可能是在最長的時間,他可以集中精力,但他會來回到佔領愉快,如果你做不抱怨,他的輪胎,它也快。 該旅滿足在聖安德魯的校舍每聖典開始,下午1:30 - 下午5:00。鼓勵您的孩子參加我們每週的節目。或撥打我們的電話 8856757 (Andy) / 02-653366(沃爾特)在大多數的夜晚,獲取更多信息。 基督少年軍在文萊 良好的紀律的開始